This story is from June 7, 2006

It's a crying game

A survey has revealed that football helps men show emotion. But most sports get guys teary-eyed, Bangalore's men reveal.
It's a crying game
A survey has revealed that football helps men show emotion. But most sports get guys teary-eyed, Bangalore's men reveal.
If you want to see your guy cry, the FIFA World Cup may be just the thing. Switch on the telly, because the chances of a man getting emotional while watching a football game are high, said a Mental Health Foundation study in the UK, last month.
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The Foundation chief executive Dr Andrew McCulloch was quoted as saying that traditionally men are less likely than women to share their innermost thoughts, and that's why, "it's encouraging that football makes it easier for men to talk about their feelings."
He's never cried while watching a football match, but model and footie fan Zoheb Yusuf says he gets upset when the team he's supporting doesn't win.
"If they lose, I don't feel like doing anything after the match."The only time Zoheb says he would cry would be if India was playing. "But when it comes to other sports, like even watching Lance Armstrong cycling, you feel emotional. It's such a happy moment that you feel something inside you."
Besides getting men to reveal their emotional side, like Zoheb says he does, the study also indicated that football made it easier for guys to share their feelings with other men.

What's more, they wouldn't be embarrassed to hug their friends while watching a game. But actor Vijay Raghavendra believes that both men and women get equally emotional when there's a good football game on.
"I used to play football too, and I realise that what makes this game so emotional is the fact that it's all about winning and losing."When you put in so much energy as a player, and when you invest so much of your sentiment as a viewer, the outcome can be a roller-coaster ride.
Actor and rugby player Rahul Bose says that's the power of the innocence of sport. "What you are witness to is a simple battle.
There are no compromises; no hypocrisy. It's pure and 100 per cent."And that kind of thing doesn't happen often in real life, "When you haven't played well, you feel really bad and when you've played well, you feel great,"adds Rahul, who's broken down many a time after a game.
"I've cried when I've won and I've cried when I've lost; although now I've become an extremely good loser, so I don't cry anymore."Rahul says sport can get us emotional because it's all about basic human virtues, "heroism, leadership, team spirit... all that brings a lump to the throat."
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